Getting a diagnosis of cancer is a difficult experience. It can make you feel afraid, anxious or overwhelmed. But knowing what to expect and making plans for how to proceed can make the journey through cancer diagnosis, treatment and survival easier. Jennifer Lawhorn, DO Oncologist/Hematologist and Lori Schiller, NP, Oncology Nurse Navigator at OMH Oncology & Infusion Center, are here to coordinate your care and guide you every step of the way.
Get the Information You Need
Being well-informed can empower you and give you a better sense of control over what you’re experiencing. It will help you make treatment decisions that are most appropriate for your individual situation. You’ll find it helpful to learn about the particular type of cancer and its stage, which indicates whether and how far it has spread. You’ll also want to learn about different treatment options and what to expect from them, including side effects.
There’s a lot to learn, so it’s good to have a family member or friend accompany you to appointments to help you remember and understand it all. “When people first hear the word ‘cancer’ it’s hard for them to process the information that comes afterward,” acknowledges Jennifer Lawhorn, DO, oncologist/hematologist at OMH Oncology & Infusion Center.
“We provide the information that patients need to make their decisions and keep answering their questions as we go along,” Dr. Lawhorn says. “We know that patients won’t remember everything we tell them, so we go over the treatment plan again and again so our patients know what to expect.”
“I hand out a lot of written information so patients and their families can look at it whenever they want to,” adds Lori Schiller, NP, nurse navigator. “In addition, I direct them to resources on the Web where they can find reliable information. There’s a lot of misinformation out there, so it’s important to know where you can find accurate information.”
Consider Consequences
Anticipating possible physical changes due to cancer or its treatment can help you cope with them if they occur. If you may lose your hair, you could investigate where to get a wig or hairpiece. Cancer support groups can be especially helpful in appearance-related matters, as many members have been through these challenges and can give you tips. “We partner with the American Cancer Society to provide support for patients in the area,” Schiller notes.
If you may be unable to keep up with your everyday responsibilities, it’s often easier to make other arrangements in advance, rather than waiting until you’re no longer able to manage them.
Unexpected financial burdens can arise from a cancer diagnosis. Treatment may require time away from work or away from home. Transportation costs, medications and medical devices may also strain budgets. “Our social worker works with patients and their insurance companies to find financial programs that help with issues like paying for transportation or good nutrition,” Dr. Lawhorn says.
Develop Your Own Strategies
Each person’s cancer treatment is tailored to their unique situation. Your coping strategies should be, too. Over time, you’ll find what works best for you. Some ideas to try include:
- Practice relaxation techniques.
- Have open, honest conversations with friends, loved ones, counselors and/or spiritual advisors.
- Record your thoughts and feelings in a journal.
- List the pros and cons of each option when facing a difficult decision.
- Remain involved in your usual activities as much as you can.
Dr. Lawhorn emphasizes that OMH Oncology & Infusion Center will help you through all phases of your journey through cancer diagnosis, treatment and survival. She says, “If you feel like you’re struggling with some aspect of your care, it’s really important to communicate that to us so we can help you work it out.”
Learn More – Online Resources
- American Cancer Society, www.cancer.org
- American Society of Clinical Oncology, www.asco.org
- National Comprehensive Cancer Network, www.nccn.org